Life ‘I love you but I hate being around you.’ What to do when your partner gets on your nerves. May 31, 2023 Sara Kuburic, USA TODAY Comments Off on ‘I love you but I hate being around you.’ What to do when your partner gets on your nerves. If you're currently in a phase where you're struggling with feeling annoyed by your partner, it's OK. The first step is to understand why.